“Friends love all the time, and kinsfolk are born for times of trouble.” (Proverbs 17:17, CEB)
We met a couple who visited our church many years ago. Over the next few months we developed a close friendship. We met together often, shared deeply, laughed often and just enjoyed life with these great friends. We even vacationed together a few times, which was a first for us. They joined in our family activities as they became family to us.
During this time there came some adversity for this couple that we discovered wasn't uncommon. Words were spoken without thought, feelings were hurt and a rift developed that they believed could not be overcome. At least that had been their experience with friends in the past. There was shame and pain and some feelings of loneliness that they had felt many times before.
Then we showed up at their house.
Through surprised looks they welcomed us in, we offered them our love and forgiveness, shed some tears together and with hugs all around, the friendship began to heal. And while we knew the challenges would still exist they told us, "no one has ever stuck around for us like this."
Now let me state clearly that this story is not really about Peggy and me or our amazing friendship gifts. I've stated that we haven't had many really close friendships through the years, so this was a real first for us as well. And it was difficult. Our feelings were hurt too. But the friendship meant too much for us to walk away. We stepped into the fire with this couple and it made all the difference...
...for all of us.
It was a humbling reminder for me just how difficult we make it for Jesus at times, yet he sticks it out with us. We turn our backs, say things we shouldn't, take digs that we really don't mean and too often create possible rifts in our relationship with him. But he just keeps showing up, offering grace, giving love, forgiving us. It's what Jesus does.
It's what a real friend does...
...and he's the real thing.
Consider calling a friend today, especially one who may be struggling...even with you. Make amends, offer grace, shed a tear together.
You'll get closer to Jesus in the process.
Peace ><>
Pastor Chris
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